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Why Patriarchal Men Are Utterly Petrified of Birth Control -- And Why We'll Still Be Fighting About it 100 Years From Now

Seeded on Fri Feb 17, 2012 4:14 AM EST
Read ArticleArticle Source: AlterNet.org
politics, gop, contraception, womens-liberation, patriarchial-men
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Conservative bishops and Congressmen are fighting a rear-guard action against one of the most revolutionary changes in human history.

What's happening in Congress this week, as Rep. Darrell Issa (R-CA) bars any women from testifying at his so-called "religious freedom" hearings, is so familiar and expected that it hardly counts as news. The only thing surprising about it is the year: didn't we all honestly think that by 2012, contraception would be a non-issue, and Congress wouldn't make the mistake of leaving women out of conversations like this one?

 Contraception was the single necessary key that opened the door to the whole new universe of activities that had always been zealously monopolized by the men — education, the trades, the arts, government, travel, spiritual and cultural leadership, and even (eventually) war making.

That one fact, that one technological shift, is now rocking the foundations of every culture on the planet — and will keep rocking it for a very long time to come. It is, over time, bringing a louder and prouder female voice into the running of the world’s affairs at every level, creating new conversations and new priorities in areas where the men long ago thought things were settled and understood. It's bending our understanding of what sex is about, and when and with whom we can have it -- a wrinkle that created new frontiers for gay folk as well. It may well prove to the be the one breakthrough most responsible for the survival of the human race, and the future viability of the planet.

But perhaps most critically for us right now: mass-produced, affordable, reliable contraception has shredded the ages-old social contracts between men and women, and is forcing us all (willing or not) into wholesale re-negotiations on a raft of new ones.

And, frankly, while some men have embraced this new order— perhaps seeing in it the potential to open up some interesting new choices for them, too — a global majority is increasingly confused, enraged, and terrified by it. They never wanted to be at this table in the first place, and they’re furious to even find themselves being forced to have this conversation at all.

It was never meant to happen. It never should have happened. And they’re doing their damndest to put a stop to it all, right now, and make it go away.

It’s this rage that’s driving the Catholic bishops into a frenzied donnybrook fight against contraception — despite the very real possibility that this fight could, in the end, damage their church even more fatally than the molestation scandal did. As the keepers of a 2000-year-old enterprise — one of the oldest continuously-operating organizations on the planet, in fact — they take the very long view. And they understand, better than most of us, just how unprecedented this development is in the grand sweep of history, and the serious threat it poses to everything their church has stood for going back to antiquity.

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ambivalent

Much better, safer for them, to keep their women close at home, pregnant. Right Mr. Santorum?

  • 6 votes
Reply#1 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 4:25 AM EST
Steven of Coulterville

I look back on contraception as one of the many inventions that have sent ripples throughout space and time. From a selfish point of view, it made the one-night-stand culture a possibility. It freed both men and women from a worry that had consumed human civilization from the dawn of time.

A lady-friend of mine once listed "Fire, The Wheel, The Printed Word, Contraception, and Lingerie" as the most defining inventions in human history. She'd tailored her speech to the audience, mind you; she was speaking, on behalf of fellow models, to executives at "Victoria's Secret." In private, she stripped lingerie off the list. What she told me was that her entire profession was made possible by the liberation that contraceptives had brought about.

The very idea that a bunch of pseudo-religious cavemen (and their delusional female lackeys) would see removing contraception as an option is...so disgusting that I'd have to say lots and lots of very nasty CoH violations to express my opinion of their position.

  • 2 votes
Reply#2 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 5:58 AM EST
bore-head007

What we’ve learned these past few weeks is: the fight for contraception is not only not over — it hasn’t even really started yet.

When will women take control of their own destiny?

Men are only "in control" , because women, powerful women stand by and allow it. Why?

Most men are not aligned with these zealots that share these warped notion's of control.

There are some, but most are as incredulous about these views as women.

When will women Occupy? Pretty damn quick. When they realize the are really in control.

  • 3 votes
#2.1 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 6:57 AM EST
ambivalent

Maybe if the ones who fall in step (ie betray themselves and their gender) will someday stop clinging to old, warn out "power", stop accepting gender oppression as a way of life. I wonder how much more it will take. Their daughteers and granddaughters will not stand for it.
No problem, the old guard will die and their BS with them. I have great faith in evolution. But let's not try to blame women for what is happening right now. We are legion and we are empowered, and we plan to keep it that way.

These guys are clinging to what they view as the last vestiges of patriarchy.

  • 2 votes
#2.2 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 7:12 AM EST
bore-head007

I raised my daughters to understand that they were the ones that have power, and control.

I explained to them the price they would pay for compromise in their beliefs.

They are no ones slaves, and no ones servant.

  • 3 votes
#2.3 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 7:33 AM EST
Vis Major

I have a teenage son with a girlfriend and this has given us many chances to discuss the topic.

  • 1 vote
#2.4 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 10:55 AM EST
ambivalent

Vis Major : That's really good that you do that.

b-h, You are a good and sensible Dad and I am certain that they know and appreciate that in you.

  • 1 vote
#2.5 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 11:22 AM EST
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easyjjgrand3

Drill down to the very deepest center of any of these movements, and you'll find men who are experiencing this change as a kind of personal annihilation, a loss of masculine identity so deep that they are literally interpreting it as the end of the world. (The first rule of understanding apocalyptic movements is this: If someone tells you the world is ending, believe them. Because for them, it probably is.)

And perhaps it should, because in a sense the young ladys' world is also dying, figuratively.

  • 1 vote
Reply#3 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 9:07 AM EST
Future History

It's funny how it is not widely understood that we are on a planet with a finite amount of space, with a finite amount of resources, and currently housing billions of people relying on fossil fuels - yet contraception, gender equality and acceptance of homosexuals are not seen as the best gift we could give ourselves. If it were up to the thoughtless theocrats that are chomping at the bit to rule the land, we would populate ourselves right into extinction in a race against the enhanced global climate change that they refuse to acknowledge.

  • 2 votes
Reply#4 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 9:22 AM EST
ambivalent

It's a huge puzzle, for sure.

  • 1 vote
#4.1 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 10:39 AM EST
reddirthippy

If it were up to the thoughtless theocrats that are chomping at the bit to rule the land, we would populate ourselves

Maybe you hit on one of the motives, the fear that all those others are breeding themselves into the majority.

  • 1 vote
#4.2 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 11:22 AM EST
ambivalent

Perhaps they are fearful that they will end up with not enough children to indoctrinate.

  • 2 votes
#4.3 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 11:23 AM EST
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reddirthippy

let's assume for a minute it is only about religious freedom,please explain why women should be excluded from that discussion?

    Reply#5 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 10:33 AM EST
    Vis Major

    Letting women speak in church is what started all the trouble in the first place.

    If anyone misses the sarcasm, I can't help you.

    • 1 vote
    #5.1 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 10:57 AM EST
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    PattyNC

    It's really not about religious freedom. It's about power and money. And anti American Constitution.

    It's about stupidity during a election year.It's about getting their faces on the news and embracing the idiot sanatorium ideals.

    It's about the lowest common denominator group the insane tea party, they don't have brains and will use redundant irrelevant ideas, without any understanding what their doing, or the harm or the suffering they are causing to women.

    The Pope has agreed with our President about the birth control added to their health insurance.

    But evangelicals christian right extremist teas will not degree with our President. And this will be used to to help the big insurance companies to pick and chose what coverages we can have.

    The next big thing will be the enactment of Sharia law in America, mush like the laws in Va and Iowa and these states extreme forced vaginal invasive ultrasound bills.

    You young and older women are stronger, smarter, more educated have more opportunities and carry a stronger voice in our world today.You will carry on and do what is right and you will win.

    OBAMA 2012

    • 1 vote
    Reply#6 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 1:45 PM EST
    mike the vet

    Turn about is fair play let women decide who get Viagra.

    • 2 votes
    Reply#7 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 7:22 PM EST
    ambivalent

    Men who believe that women don't need birth control should not be copulating, so they don't ever get any Viagra, actually they don't any, period.

    • 1 vote
    #7.1 - Fri Feb 17, 2012 8:57 PM EST
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    Jackie-2759125

    "It's this rage that's driving the Catholic bishops into a frenzied donnybrook fight against contraception — despite the very real possibility that this fight could, in the end, damage their church even more fatally than the molestation scandal did. As the keepers of a 2000-year-old enterprise — one of the oldest continuously-operating organizations on the planet, in fact — they take the very long view. And they understand, better than most of us, just how unprecedented this development is in the grand sweep of history, and the serious threat it poses to everything their church has stood for going back to antiquity."

    Don't forget fear in this equation. My opinion is if women of a particular religion have a problem with birth control, don't use it. Just don't tell me or legislate to me that I cannot! I especially resent being legislated to by males of the church. I have no intention of going back to the days that they look back at with so much reverie where we were much like cattle being traded in the stock yard. All these types of discussions and attempts at control create is resentment and division not only within the government and churches but between the sexes. I can't believe these issues are even up for debate in this manner. Seeing a panel of priests and rabbis, they're not being female quite obvious, incensed me to disgust and reminded me why I no longer have anything to do with organized religion.

      Reply#8 - Sun Feb 19, 2012 11:56 AM EST
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